Chris Hatfield/Overcoming Your Fearful Avoidant Attachment

Feel more secure and trusting in your relationships from this course, which includes over 55+ lessons and exercises.

Is your fearful avoidant sabotaging your relationships?

Do you find yourself, when dating, feeling a mixture of anxious and avoidant traits?

Battling between wanting a connection, but finding it hard to trust and open up with a partner?

You're not alone in this, yet with a fearful avoidant (aka disaorganised) attachment, it can feel like you are.

Feeling both aspects of an insecure attachment can be confusing and tiring.

If you want to change this, then the Overcoming Your Fearful Avoidant Attachment Course will enable you to:

✔️ Reduce your anxiety

✔️ Avoid self-sabotage

✔️ Manage your avoidant trait

✔️ Stop the constant overthinking

✔️ Feeling more trusting in relationships

What's included?

  • 🎥 55+ Bitesize Video Lessons

  • 🛠️ 20+ Exercises

  • 💬 Chat Support

  • 🔒 Lifetime Access

  • 🔥 Exclusive Offer - Was £59.99, now £39.99

So if you want to overcome and overcome your fearful avoidant, click the link below.

Course Content Sample

Dependence vs Independence

Want to get an idea of the content you can access in the course?

Here's a snippet from one of the lessons on reframing your self-talk.

Course Overview

Start by better understanding your fearful avoidant attachment and the hidden triggers to look for.

Then how to recognise your limiting beliefs and thoughts that may be holding you back; alongside the tools to challenge and overcome this.

This first half of the course will give you immediate tools to reduce your anxiety, better understand how to regulate your avoidant aspect and feel better prepared on how to deal with it overall.

Lessons include:

  • The 4 Attachment Styles

  • When to Listen to your FA

  • Why You May Self-Sabotage

  • Spotting Your Limiting Beliefs

  • Developing Your Self-Regulation

  • How to Reframe Your Anxious Thoughts

Learn how to improve your self-esteem, create healthy boundaries, proactively communicate and build trust.

Lessons include:

  • 4 Ways to Build Your Self-Esteem

  • Defining Your Non-Negotiables

  • Become Comfortable With Saying "No"

  • Handling Fear of Losing Independence

  • How to Reduce Texting Anxiety

  • Extra support links & resources

Testimonials

Here's what others have had to say about the Overcoming Your Fearful Avoidant Course.

I want to say a massive thank you to for this course. I signed up to the course after finding myself constantly self-sabotaging my relationships. The course not only made me more aware of my triggers and that I wasn't alone, but also provided practical, tangible tools that I could apply instantly to my life. I'm now finding myself feeling more confident in managing my FA and have actually started a relationship since taking the course, which feels healthy and is going well.

Anita S

The course gave me such an education on why I feel and think the way I do, as well as ways to proactively work on myself. I found the bitesize sessions really easy to work through and lots of practical examples and tools to use. I've already recommended this to a couple of other people who are in a network group with me.

Alice

Game changer is how I'd describe this. I feel I'm fairly well educated and aware of my fearful avoidant attachment, but I still learnt a load of new tools from this course. Chris delivers it in a really engaging way as well and I love the stories shared throughout. One of the biggest takeaways for me was ways of being able to build trust with others and also to become more comfortable with being vulnerable too. Thank you!

Ed

Get

Hi, I'm Chris

Having experienced severe anxiety and fearful avoidant attachment from my teenage years, I have turned my initial pain into a passion.

I now work with companies and individuals on building a healthier and more sustainable mind and mental wellbeing.

I wanted to create a course that covers not just the nuts and bolts of anxious attachment, but very practical tools that can be instantly applied to your everyday life.

I am a full time Mindset & Attachment Coach (2 x ACC Accreditations) with 15+ years experience, Podcast Host & Founder of my own company.

What is Covered?

#1 Overview of Fearful Avoidant Attachment & Origins

Welcome to the Course!
Course Housekeeping & Objectives
1.1 Overview of Fearful Avoidant Attachment
1.2 How Can You Develop a Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style?
1.3 The Other 3 Attachment Styles
1.4 How & Why You May Self-Sabotage
1.5 When to Act on Your Attachment
Key Takeaways
Slides #1 Overview of Fearful Avoidant Attachment & Origins

#2 Fearful Avoidant Attachment Signs & Triggers

2.1 Importance of Spotting Signs & Triggers
Slides #2 The Signs & Triggers of Fearful Avoidant Attachment

#3 Managing Your Mindset & Limiting Beliefs

3.1 Overview & The 2 Parts of Our Brain
3.2 Understanding Your Limiting Beliefs
3.3 Reframing Your Limiting Beliefs
3.4 Notice, Name & Neutralise Your Anxious Thoughts
3.5 Reframing Your Comfort Zone
Key Takeaways
Slides #3 Managing Your Mindset & Limiting Beliefs
Slides 3.3 Reframing Your Limiting Beliefs Exercise
Slides 3.4 Notice it Name it Neutralise it Exercise

#4 Understanding Your Emotions

4.1 Why You May find Sharing Emotions Uncomfortable
4.2 Understanding Your Emotions
4.3 Reframing Your Emotions
4.4 Developing Your Self-Regulation
4.5 Thinking of the Benefits
Key Takeaways
Slides #4 Understanding Your Emotions
Slides 4.3 Identifying & Reframing Your Emotions Exercises
Slides 4.4 Developing Your Self-Regulation Exercises
Slides 4.5 Think of The Benefits Exercise

#5 Building Your Self-Esteem & Healthy Comparison

5.1 Overview & Why We Compare Ourselves to Others
5.2 Why Fearful Avoidant Attachment Amplifies This
5.3 The Importance of Self-Esteem
5.4 How to Build it: (A) Creating Healthier Comparisons
5.4 (B) The Power of Self-Reflection & Gratitude
5.4 (C) Acknowledging Your Other Identities
5.4 (D) The Value of Setting Goals
Key Takeaways
Slides #5 Building Your Self-Esteem & Healthy Comparison
Slides 5.4 (B) Self Reflection and Gratitude Questions
Slides 5.4 (C) Acknowledging Your Other Identities Exercise
Slides 5.4 (D) Setting Goals Exercise

#6 Setting Non-Negotiables & Building Trust

6.1 Defining Your Non-Negotiables
6.2 Becoming More Comfortable With Saying “No”
6.3 Fear of Dependence vs Independence
6.4 The Importance of Proactive Communication
6.5 How to Communicate Your Fearful Avoidant Attachment
6.5 Key Takeaways
Slides #6 Setting Your Non-Negotiables & Building Trust
Slides 6.1 Defining Your Non Negotiables Exercise.pdf
Slides 6.3 All or Nothing Thinking Exercise.pdf

#7 Handling & Reducing Your Texting Anxiety

7.1 & 7.2: Handling & Reducing Your Texting Anxiety
Slides #7 Handling & Reducing Texting Anxiety

#8 Extra Support

Course Summary & Next Steps
Slides #8: Extra Support